Re: Sibling Selection

["Freya Schultz" <freya@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>]

My experience with sexual abuse cases in multiple sibling families, in particular, is similar, with the exception that parents with a history of sexual misconduct (rape charges as a young man, for instance) outside the family have targeted ALL female children as they have reached puberty.  I have had more than one case in which the father (and this was the biological father) was carrying on a "family tradition" of initiating ALL female children into sex - - "to avoid sexual problems when they married".  The first steps involved oral sex on Dad, then vaginal penetration, normally when mom is not home, with the requirement that the child maintain secrecy "Mom wouldn't understand, and she does not meet Dad's needs, so special "you" will help Dad and learn how to please your husband when you grow up." That is the standard reason given, if any reason is given, in these cases, in my experience.

 

Freya Schultz

Santa Barbara County

>>> swyld@xxxxxxxxx 08/02/02 12:12PM >>>
this is regarding the multple child forum that i recieved. i have read
several case studies concerning child mistreatment in multiple child
families. most of the time if the abuse focuses on only a portion of the
child population in the family either the abuser is not the biological
parent or the child has other issues (mostly medical o behavioral) that
"Rob" the abusing parent of attention that he/she feels they would have
attained.
this is a very general note but maybe it will help in your information
gathering.

Samuel Wyld, RCA
New Hanover Regional Medical Center
Respiratory Therapy Department
WIlmington, NC 28402
(910)815-8003

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this is regarding the multple child forum that i recieved. i have read
several case studies concerning child mistreatment in multiple child
families. most of the time if the abuse focuses on only a portion of the
child population in the family either the abuser is not the biological
parent or the child has other issues (mostly medical o behavioral) that
"Rob" the abusing parent of attention that he/she feels they would have
attained.
this is a very general note but maybe it will help in your information
gathering.

Samuel Wyld, RCA
New Hanover Regional Medical Center
Respiratory Therapy Department
WIlmington, NC 28402
(910)815-8003